156: Dan Fleyshman shares The Best Networking Activity

Overview

On this episode of Build Your Network, Host Travis Chappell interviews Dan Fleyshman the youngest founder of a publicly traded company in history, he then started an online poker company and is now an angel investor and helps people gain massive followings.

Topics Discussed:

  • About Dan Fleyshman
    • He was born in Russia, moved here and hosted a swap/meet weekly with his parents.
    • He and his mother moved to San Diego when he was 8, he went into hustle mode to make money.
      • He started to sell candy at school and flipped every week.
    • He trademarked “Who’s Your Daddy.”
    • He went to the Magic Clothing Convention and set up a booth next to FUBU.
    • He looks at all the comments and reviews of any business he wants to invest in.
  • Talk about trademarking “Who’s Your Daddy?”
    • He realized that none of the trademarks were there yet and they trademarked everything they could in as many places as they could.
    • They did the clothing side of things and licensed it out.
    • The whole ride was not perfectly uphill.
    • Started selling to department stores and chain stores.
    • Started an energy drink that tasted good under the same name.
      • They did a million in sales really quick.
      • They took it public and raised millions in one round.
    • Did you have limiting beliefs about money growing up?
      • He wanted to work his butt off and save money for college.
      • Everything was step-by-step for them.
    • How did your mother feel about this level of success?
      • He hired her multiple times.
      • His brother still does all of his accounting.
    • Tell us about your charity work.
      • It’s almost the 7th anniversary of the Model Citizen Fund making backpacks for the homeless.
      • It’s a 0% charity, he pays for absolutely everything and all donations go to backpacks.
      • This is his passion project.
    • Talk about the 1%.
      • People who are mad at the 1% are insane.
      • People who want to make money and do better for their family.
    • How do you make money?
      • It’s never been easier – dropshipping, rental property.
    • How will living below their means allow people to move up to the next level?
      • The more money you have to work with, it can then replicate and grow.
      • If you upgrade your lifestyle instead of investing, you lose a big investment opportunity.
    • How do you feel about a side-hustle?
      • He’s a big proponent and it’s the best time in history to do it.
      • People don’t need as much money anymore to get started.
    • What holds people back from being an entrepreneur?
      • Fear and themselves.
    • Talk about how you got into poker and some skills you’ve learned and applied to the business world.
      • When he was 18 he started playing poker because his family was in the business.
      • He would fly to Vegas on the weekends.
      • When he resigned from “Who’s Your Daddy” he started his own poker site.
        • This was before social media got as big.
      • The business side of it was the networking, he played poker to be around the people.
    • Talk about what are small, mid, and high stakes poker buy ins.
      • Small stakes is buy in for $100-200.
      • Mid stakes are $1,000 buy-in and you start to see interesting people.
      • High stakes poker is $10,000 and up buy ins.
      • There are tournaments where you can only lose what you bought in for.
        • You will meet a lot of celebrities, especially at charity events.
      • What are some tells you’ve learned during poker?
        • The poker table is all about human behavior.
          • Watch eyes and gravity (sitting up, slouching)
          • Body language, covering neck, etc.
        • How should people learn how to understand human behavior?
          • Google Joe Navarro.
        • Do you believe that what you know or who you know is more important, and why?
          • Who you know, you don’t need to know what other experts know.
          • You fast forward relationships, knowledge, etc. by who you know.
        • Tell us about a time where a connection led to a moment of success.
          • His best friend was the founder of Marvel Studios.
            • He threw a charity poker tournament on a cruise ship and his partner introduced him to a member of the foundation who became his best friend.
          • Last year a woman needed advice on how to throw a charity tournament.
            • He went upstairs and met the director of Arnold Schwarzenegger’s event.
            • He got to propose to his girlfriend while Arnold handed her the ring.
          • What is the #1 most important practice that has allowed you to build a network of that capacity?
            • He rarely asks for anything, he provides them things they can’t buy.
            • He throws his monthly events and charity events.
            • He sends people articles or things that are relevant to them.
            • He sends invites to events to people even though he knows they can’t come.
            • When he does ask for something, he’s very, very direct about it.
          • Talk to us about your event on September 1st.
            • It’s his birthday and he’s throwing his largest event ever.
            • 12pm start, 8 hours of speakers, all heavy hitters.
            • It’s being thrown at the Hollywood Palladium.
            • After all the speakers Wiz Khalifa will perform and from that point on it’s his birthday party.
            • All the speakers texted him asking what he wants them to talk about.

The Random Round:

  • What profession other than your own do you think it would be fun to attempt?
    • Poker
  • If you could sit on a park bench with anyone for an hour who would it be, and why?
    • Harry Houdini
    • He created infamy before there were any phones, tv, etc.
  • How do you like to consume content?
    • Videos
  • Give us a glimpse of your morning routine?
    • Wakes up and avoids phone for a few minutes
    • Goes through his phone and gets through emails and texts.
    • Gets everything prepped for the day.
    • No urgency to respond to everyone right away.
  • What is your go-to pump up song?
    • All I Do is Win
  • What is one thing you’re not very good at?
    • What he isn’t good at, he has people do for him.
  • What is one place where we can find you the most?
    • On all social media @danfleyshman <- especially Instagram.

Tweetable Quotes:

  • I’m obsessed with studying my competitors.
  • It’s easy to make money once you have money.
  • Rich people can buy whatever they want, but they can’t buy access, cool or information.

Resources Mentioned:

Buildyournetwork.co – Podcast website

BYN.media/fb – Facebook Group

elevatorbootcamp.com

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