076: Sharing the Stage with Million Dollar Listing Stars with Bryan Casella

Overview

On this episode of Build Your Network, Host Travis Chappell interviews Bryan Casella.

Topics Discussed:

  • About Bryan Casella:
    • Broke out into the scene about four years ago with real estate.
    • After he had success he started selling product and doing YouTube.
      • YouTube helped people identify with him.
      • He had a story that people could watch.
    • What’s the number one thing that differentiates you in the Real Estate world?
      • One – He became an expert at real estate.
        • 95% of realtors are amateurs.
      • Two – Build a brand.
        • His brand is not recognizable across the country.
        • He’s getting multiple agent referrals a month.
      • How did you get the knowledge that makes you an expert?
        • One- Conferences, books, courses, seminars, etc.
        • Two – Experiential knowledge.
          • If you haven’t experienced it yet, you need to find someone who has.
          • Find experts who are doing well and find a way to shadow and learn from them.
            • Get to see the knowledge applied.
          • Everyone struggles in the beginning.
        • Do you believe that what you know or who you know is more important, and why?
          • What you know.
            • A lot of his opportunities have been given to him because he’s an expert.
            • It’s not just what you know, it’s are you a master?
          • How do you put your name in with the experts?
            • There’s an inner world and an outer world.
              • Your confidence has to be rock-solid and world class.
              • Because Bryan displayed confidence, he was labeled as a little too much.
                • That’s what’s required.
              • There’s nothing you can say that Bryan doesn’t have an answer for.
              • You have to be able to back up the confidence with the ability to deliver.
            • How do you have confidence without cockiness?
              • Society has exaggerated the whole arrogance thing.
                • If you can demonstrate, it’s not arrogant.
              • Accept that you’re not where you want to be and strive to get where you want to go.
              • Arrogance is reaching, you’re going out of your way to seek validation.
                • Just know inside that you are that good, you don’t have to tell anybody, you can show them.
              • How has building relationships with people, whether client or mentor, accelerated your career?
                • We tend to want to work with people within our social circle.
              • Tell us a story about how a connection led to a big moment of success.
                • Sold a property in a very affluent neighborhood for a lawyer.
                • Met the lawyer at Toastmasters.
                  • He decided to go to places that were purposeful.
                  • Because they met at the same place, the relationship was a lot easier.
                  • Within 3-4 weeks they had exchanged numbers.
                  • Has sold two houses for this lawyer and gotten multiple referrals.
                • Is there somewhere that you go when you’re wanting to expand your network?
                  • Yes, exotic car shows.
                  • He’s sold four houses in the last year for people he’s met at these shows.
                  • He’s made a lot of great relationships meeting at mutual events.
                  • Don’t look at networking as work, go to places you actually have interest in.
                • How did you end up speaking with Josh Altman?
                  • He went to an event and met Josh Altman.
                  • A few years later, a mutual friend bumped into him and asked Bryan to speak on the same stage as Josh.
                  • He’s constantly forcing himself to get better at public speaking.
                  • It’s so important to continuously focus on improving certain skills.
                  • You need to reverse engineer what you want your life to look like in a few years and outline steps to get there.
                • Throughout your career, how crucial have mentorships and masterminds been for you?
                  • Very essential, one of the most important things.
                  • He’s constantly in communication with his mentors.
                  • He created a real-estate mastermind.
                  • It’s a constant refinement, you can achieve more together.
                • Do you have any tips on how to handle rejection?
                  • The fact that you’re being rejected, you yourself have that power.
                    • If someone rejects you, you can reject the rejection.
                  • Rejection is a part of the human experience.
                    • We’re social creatures as human beings.
                  • If you know that 5% of people will buy from you, you’ll go after more people.
                  • Come from a place of empathy with a mission in mind.
                    • You’re going to find people who need your help.
                      • When you get rejected, they’re rejecting your service, not you. Don’t take it personally.

The Random Round:

  • What profession other than your own do you think it would be fun to attempt?
    • Stock broker
  • If you could sit on a park bench for an hour with anyone past or present, who would it be?
    • Michael Jordan – they have similar mindsets.
  • How do you like to learn best, books, blogs, podcasts or video?
    • Books
  • One of your favorite books?
    • The 48 Laws of Power
  • Give us a glimpse of your morning routine:
    • Wake up around 5:30-5:40
    • Go to gym
    • Come home and read
    • Shower and get ready
    • Get into office and get going
  • What is your go-to pump up song:
    • Paulie D Song from Jersey Shore
  • What are you not very good at?
    • Techie stuff – video editing, pictures
  • Find him online at bryancasella.com

Tweetable Quotes:

  • “If you’re good at what you do, you don’t have to tell people, you show them.”
  • “When you get rejection, know that people are rejecting your service, not you. Don’t take it personally.”

Resources Mentioned:

Buildyournetwork.com – Podcast website

BYN.media/fb – Facebook Group

Castbox

BryanCasella.com – Bryan’s website

Toastmasters – Public speaking group

Josh Altman – Altman Brothers Real Estate

The 48 Laws of Power – Book by Robert Greene

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