064: Networking with Billionaires with Thor Conklin

Overview

On this episode of Build Your Network, Host Travis Chappell interviews Thor Conklin, entrepreneur, profitability consultant, and host of Peak Performers podcast. He owns a Peak Performance consulting group.

Topics Discussed:

  • About Thor Conklin
    • He’s been an entrepreneur for the last 18 years.
    • He’s bought companies, sold companies, and even destroyed one company I his history.
    • People often think everything will get easier on their journey as they go, that’s not the case.
    • Before entrepreneurship:
      • He wasn’t a great student in school.
      • Applied to insurance school and didn’t get in.
        • Had to go back and take some classes at community college.
        • Then he came back to the insurance school.
        • He learned that most people don’t follow through.
      • He was a door to door life insurance salesman.
        • He had a briefcase, business cards, etc.
        • It was hard to find leads.
        • He got a degree in insurance and got into serving private equity firms.
        • Started Private Equity Risk Consultants.
      • In the commercial insurance space back then, there were no rates, everything was negotiated.
        • Based on your network you were more or less valuable as a client.
      • He was about 25 years old when he started working with venture capital firms.
        • His boss made him go to Hermes to get ties because he needed to fit the part.
      • The first company he started, a private equity firm came to him and asked him to work on all of their accounts.
        • This was one of the top five insurance companies in the world.
        • They gave him 10 minutes to come up with a name and a business plan.
        • In 20 minutes he had a deal done and was fully booked.
      • Do you believe that what you know or who you know is more important?
        • It’s who you know.
        • You have to know something, the K in PEAK performance stands for knowledge.
        • You have to execute on the knowledge.
        • You have to get around people who recognize the knowledge and can help you.
        • He was in proximity to people who were doing large deals, that helped him get the deals.
      • Tell us a story about a time when a connection led to a big success:
        • He was in Las Vegas at a business seminar.
        • He saw a couple buddies of his and he knew they needed to meet
          • He’s a connector.
        • About two months after his buddies connected, the one guy asked him to come to his office.
          • He gave him a 6-figure check in an envelope because the relationship was so profitable, and he wanted to thank him.
          • That introduction has led to even further involvement in their firm.
        • Boil it down to one tip on relationships.
          • What are you going in for? If you’re trying to figure out what you’re going to get, it’s a loser’s game.
        • Throughout your career, how important have mentorships and masterminds been?
          • He used to be a caddy on a golf course, he would caddy for a guy who was an incredible networker. He gave him a good start.
        • Why do so many people neglect to spend the time to network.
          • They don’t see the importance of it.
          • They’re not willing to get in and do the work.
          • They don’t have the right intention.
          • Networking properly takes time.
        • If you had a funnel standing up, everyone is trying to figure out how to get people into the funnel.
          • People are spending too much time up top throwing people into the funnel.
          • They don’t have someone, or are there themselves along the customer journey to nurture them.
            • These bottoms of the funnel people will throw referrals your way and those people don’t go into the top of the funnel.
            • You’ve got to be present.
          • People who network poorly usually do care, they just don’t understand how to connect. They’re every place except where they are.
        • What fears have you overcome networking?
          • He’s never really had fears, because it comes naturally to them.
          • He just says “Hi, I’m Thor, what’s your name?” and then he gets to know about them.
            • His intent is not to get, it’s to connect.
          • Does anybody think you’re joking when you say your name?
            • Yes, all the time.
          • Who’s the best relationship builder that you know personally and what makes them that way?
            • Charlie Weissman, his mentor on the golf course.
            • Jessie Itzler, the guy behind coconut water and married to Sarah Blakely, founder of Spanx.
              • He’s engaging and he makes you feel special and seen.
              • He’s generally interested in what you’re doing and he’s very curious.
              • Good networkers are curious, they’re not judgmental.
            • It’s your network that has the biggest effect of your net worth.
            • If he lost his contact list, he would go to Starbucks and just sit down with someone to get their information.
            • You need to have a genuine interest in what’s important to other people.

The Random Round

  • What profession other than your own do you think it would be fun to attempt?
    • Yacht broker, they deal with the coolest clients
  • If you could sit on a park bench for any hour with anyone past or present, who would it be?
    • His dad, he’s passed away.
  • How do you like to learn best, books, blogs, podcasts or video?
    • None of the above, doing.
  • Give us a glimpse of your morning routine:
    • Wake up at 4:59am, stays in bed and starts off with a commitment, says a prayer.
    • Gets up and has an audio program to his voice with music that’s meaningful to him.
    • Sits down and writes out his top three goals for the year.
  • What is your go-to pump up song:
    • Can’t Stop, Red Hot Chili Peppers
  • What are you not very good at?
    • Spelling
  • Find him on Facebook
  • If you have a business, or not, send a 50 word or less email to Thor@thorconklin.com telling him what the biggest issue in your life or your business, he’ll respond with a 4-step process that will annihilate that issue.

 

Tweetable Quotes:

  • People who network poorly usually do care, they just don’t understand how to connect. They’re every place except where they are.
  • Good networkers are curious, they’re not judgmental.
  • It’s your network that has the biggest effect of your net worth.

Resources Mentioned:

Buildyournetwork.co – Podcast website

Peak Performer’s Podcast – Thor’s Podcast

Thorconklin.com – Thor’s Website

Can’t Stop Won’t Stop – Song by the Red Hot Chili Peppers

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